Growing up is all about sorting out these kinds of passions, and they can be sorted out.

Sometimes it takes a little help from people who know how.

If you're still confused by this, talk to a Christian counselor or a youth pastor about it. But know this: admiration for other men is healthy, and feeling sexual at the same time doesn't mean you're sexually attracted to that person specifically.

Whatever you do, don't believe the propaganda that says if you feel attraction to a man, you're gay.